Parents and caregivers are responsible for shaping their children’s level of interaction with media. They play a pivotal role in providing young people with the opportunity to learn, socialise and play through screen technologies, and also protecting them from the potential risks associated with them.
Understandably, many parents choose to manage their children’s media use through parental control tools. Yet, according to a recent study – entitled ‘Benchmarking of parental control tools for the online protection of children – which was prepared for the European
Commission, “most parental control tools fail to sufficiently address the needs of the parents to protect children against online risks”.
In this article, we will take a closer look at this report in order to understand which parental controls work, which ones don’t, and why…
What Are Parental Control Tools?
The Australian Office of eSafety defines parental control tools as being technologies that “help parents monitor and limit what their children do online”. What is important, however, is for parents to be mindful that not all parental control tools were created equal, with some being inordinately intrusive or excessively restrictive.
How Do Parental Control Tools Work?
According to the European Commission’s report, there are four primary functions of parental control tools. These include the ability to:
block addresses: to avoid access to specific URLs
filter content: to prevent access to inappropriate content
manage usage: to limit Internet access by setting time limits
monitor activities: to check, through alerts and reporting, children’s activity on the Internet.
There are three conventional ways to use a parental control tool:
install software on the device
download an app on the mobile device
subscribe to an online filtering service offered by an Internet Service Provider.
The ‘benchmarking of parental control tools’ report assessed four main areas of performance for each tool. These were:
You can view the results of the report here but in summary, it was found that the most common weakness among filters and blockers was the ease with which the tool could be bypassed or uninstalled. A further problem was posed by inordinately intrusive spyware tools, which often create a state of distrust and resentment between parents and their children.
The report summarised that, in order to be effective, parental controls tools need to offer the following functionality:
the ability to work no matter what browser the child uses
time-scheduling that lets parents define a weekly schedule for when the child is allowed on the Internet, the computer, or both
produce reports that lets parents easily check on the child’s online behaviour.
It then went on to make the following parental recommendation, “parental controls are useful tools to protect children and youngsters going online. However, they cannot be regarded as a substitute for open communication and dialogue between parents and
children about: restrictions on what is allowed and for how long; which games and apps they may use; with whom they can play games or interact online; why it is important not to share personal information, and how to deal with inappropriate behaviour online by usual or new contacts”.
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References & More Information On Parental Control Tools
(1) Office of the eSafety Commissioner. iParent: Parental controls.
(2) European Commission, 2017. Benchmarking of parental control tools for the online protection of children.